WHY I STOPPED DRIVING IN MALAYSIA AND WHAT LIFE LOOKS LIKE NOW (5 YEARS LATER) – from Automologist Su’s point of view.
In 2020, I stopped driving. Not because I lost my license. Not because I couldn’t afford a car. I simply…..stopped. And five years later, I haven’t looked back – not even at my side mirrors.
Here’s what life looks like when you stop driving in Malaysia, rely on public transport, and still somehow end up buying four cars (for my immediate family).
Since stepping away from the driver’s seat, my everyday rides have been Grab cars, Bolt, e-hailing, and the LRT in Kuala Lumpur. I don’t deal with traffic stress, parking fees or squeezing into tight lots. Honestly, not having to parallel park feels like winning in life. (I never learned how anyway – and still don’t plan to).
Here’s the twist : While I stopped driving, I bought not one, but four cars – for my brother, sister and nephews. So technically, I’m still part of the Malaysian car scene…just not behind the wheel. Family first, right?
Let’s be real – driving in KL is not for beginners. The traffic is unpredictable, the lanes disappear randomly and Waze sometimes sends you straight into construction zones with no exit in sight. That fear is real. And honestly? It’s a big reason I never returned to driving. If you’ve ever panicked trying to merge in Bangsar or missed an exit on the MRR2, you’ll understand.
You don’t need to be a driver to be part of the automotive world. Today, I enjoy seeing others use the cars I gifted. I maintain them, follow their mileage and even remind them when it’s time for a service. It’s a strange kind of love – detached, yet fully present.
Final Thoughts : Is it okay to stop driving in Malaysia?
Yes. Choosing not to drive in Malaysia doesn’t mean you’re less independent. With reliable public transport in KL, e-hailing apps and car sharing options, you can still live comfortably and get where you need to go – no license required. I may return to driving someday. Maybe I’ll finally master parallel parking. Or maybe I won’t.
Either way, I’ve learned that mobility is more than just turning the ignition – it’s about finding your own way to move forward.
